Tips for Divorcing a Narcissist in Arizona

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a serious psychological problem characterized by traits such as an extreme need for attention, grandiosity, and a lack of empathy. 

Your spouse may or may not have an official diagnosis of NPD, but if you know them well, and such traits are evident you probably feel drained, confused, and hurt.

Spouses of narcissists are more likely to seek therapy for depression, anxiety, and loneliness caused by years of abuse. If you believe you are in an abusive relationship, contact a professional therapist for support.  

Why Divorcing a Narcissist is Challenging 

When the spouse of a narcissist is at the end of their rope, divorce is often the only option. 

But divorcing a narcissist is not an easy feat. It can turn into a complete nightmare. 

Litigation involving narcissists can go on and on because narcissists thrive on winning and will most likely see the dissolution of a marriage as an unacceptable failure. 

One of the most important tips for anyone who’s getting ready to break free from their narcissist spouse, having an experienced and skilled divorce lawyer by their side is essential. A good divorce attorney can help them deal with the courtroom dramatics, gaslighting, and lowball offers that most divorcing narcissists are prone to.

Here are some other useful tips for anyone planning to divorce a narcissist in Arizona.

Make Multiple Copies of Important Documents

Document everything. It’s near impossible to have a collaborative environment when divorcing a narcissist, so it’s best to be prepared with evidence that supports or strengthens the case. 

Also, it’s a good idea to have multiple copies of any evidence or file that’s relevant to the case. 

Many people with narcissistic personalities are not above tampering with and destroying evidence that runs counter to their version of reality. 

Lastly, watch out for dishonest behavior such as hiding assets.

Create Boundaries and Stick to Them

Create boundaries and limitations for both parties. For instance, the petitioner may ask their narcissist spouse to only contact them when an issue involves their shared children. If there are court orders delineating conduct or communication between the two parties, it’s important to strictly observe and follow them. 

This is even more important if the petitioner is still staying at the marital home while the divorce is ongoing.

Prioritize the Safety and Well-Being of the Children

The stress of the divorce can take its toll on the couple’s minor children. At this point, the petitioner should make sure that the case won’t cause resentment or development issues in their kids. Make sure that the process is as smooth and easy for the kids as possible. 

More importantly, don’t let a narcissistic spouse use the children as weapons that can get them an advantage during the divorce. 

Hire the Right Arizona Divorce Lawyer Now

Narcissists are masters of manipulation. They’ll stop at nothing to drag out the divorce process just to assert their control over their ex-spouse. They may also resort to intimidation tactics, smear campaigns, using the kids as pawns during child custody proceedings, and even physical abuse. 

It takes a highly skilled and well-established divorce lawyer to keep the process on track.

Goldman Law has ample experience in dealing with complex divorce cases involving narcissist spouses. We can develop a legal strategy that works best for your unique circumstances, protect your rights and interests, and minimize conflict. 

Remember, you don’t have to go through this process alone. Contact us today at (602) 698-5520 to schedule an initial consultation.